We took a few days off to travel, to celebrate with family and friends, and to rest. Remember rest? It’s that thing we used to resist as children when ordered to take a nap. As adults, we still often fuss and roll our eyes when urged to reduce the number of “opportunities” to which we say “yes” without realizing that our “no” is often the “yes” of much larger (and deeply beneficial!) proportions.
As a society, we guard our busyness as though it were a treasure (often while simultaneously fussing about all we HAVE to do!) and, in the process, reduce our energies and availabilities for those we proclaim to hold most dear…including ourselves. I know. I did it, too.
It almost wrecked me.
These days I am more likely to pull over and check out God’s artistry, take the backroad home, and fill my phone with photos of beautiful leaves, odd signage that makes me laugh, and look for all the hearts God has secretly sprinkled throughout the natural world on my neighborhood walks.
What I’ve noticed is that
- I am calmer in my spirit. (Although sometimes I still struggle with feeling “lazy” when I say no, I’m working to get over it–and get over myself!!–and hope to recover soon! smile.)
- Things still get done without me being in charge or running at break-neck speed! (Imagine that?!!)
- Other people have the chance to participate, develop or show off their talents, and be complimented.
- “I” get to say “THANK YOU!” and “great job!” and “look at YOU!!” WAY more often. I love that! In fact, it might be one of my favorite things–ever.
I wish I had noticed that sooner.
Grace and Peace–and NO Complaints!